Today a friend of mine called me arrogant, and I didn't like it.
I was like "I'm not arrogant!" But then I felt afraid that maybe I was being arrogant without knowing it.
Even though he told me that he was joking, I asked if it was true and he said yes. I had to ask him that because, I often pay more attention when people say those type of things while joking than serious.
Apparently, he had been thinking that I was being arrogant without telling me and then, when he became angry he told me that in a way that I didn't like. And he even said that he was joking, so if I hadn't paid attention even now I wouldn't know that he was thinking that way about me. He could have simply talked to me about that.
And other thing. My other friend that was next to me, also said that I was indeed arrogant but, because we are friends she knew that I didn't do that on purpose.
Well, she's right. I'm not arrogant on purpose. And I don't like to have my friends thinking that way about me, so I have to change. I have to be careful of what I say, and how I say certain things.
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